The Top 5 Regrets Couples Have About Their Wedding Photos (and How to Avoid Them)

Your wedding day will fly by in the blink of an eye — but your photos? They’re what you’ll return to, time and time again. As a documentary wedding photographer and hybrid storyteller, I’ve had many conversations with newlyweds and soon-to-be couples. Some share what they loved… and others confide what they wish they’d done differently.

So if you’re planning your wedding, here are the five most common photography regrets I hear — and how you can avoid them.

That magic moment before the reveal — hands over faces, hearts racing. Capturing the anticipation is just as important as the reaction.

1. “We didn’t book a professional.”

It might be tempting to ask a friend with a good camera to capture your day, especially if you’re on a budget. But weddings are fast-paced and unpredictable. A professional not only knows how to adapt quickly and work in all lighting conditions, but we also anticipate moments before they happen.

Avoid it: Invest in someone who doesn’t just take photos — but tells stories. You’ll thank yourself later.

One of my favourite parts of the day. Real smiles, happy tears, and a moment you’ll remember forever. No poses needed.

2. “We didn’t feel like ourselves in the photos.”

Too many couples end up with images that look posed or unnatural. I believe your photos should reflect who you really are — not a Pinterest-perfect version of a wedding day. No awkward posing. No forced smiles. Just honest moments.

Avoid it: Look for a photographer who values connection over perfection. The best moments are the ones that are genuinely you.

A little fun, a lot of style. Candid shots like these tell the full story of your day — and keep the morning nerves in check.

3. “We missed getting photos with people who matter most.”

You’ll be surrounded by loved ones, but in the whirlwind of the day, it’s easy to forget to get photos with your grandparents, best friends, or the cousin you haven’t seen in years.

Avoid it: Create a short, meaningful list of must-have group shots in advance — and share it with your photographer.

Relaxed, natural portraits with your closest people. No stiff poses, just real connection and a lot of laughter.

4. “We didn’t realise how much we’d want video too.”

Still photos are beautiful, but they don’t capture voices, music, or movement. Many couples tell me they regret not having a video of their vows or speeches — or seeing their guests laughing, dancing, and celebrating in real time.

Avoid it: Consider a hybrid photography and videography package. A short highlight film can bring your day to life in a way photos alone can’t.

Whether it’s on the beach or in your back garden, pre-wedding shoots are about comfort, connection — and often, a much-loved pup.

5. “We rushed booking and didn’t really connect with our photographer.”

Your photographer is with you all day. If you don’t feel comfortable around them, it shows — in how relaxed you are, how open you feel, and in the photos themselves.

Avoid it: Choose someone whose work you love and whose energy puts you at ease. Meet or chat beforehand and trust your instincts.

The light, the love, the calm before the big day. Engagement shoots are the perfect way to relax into the camera and enjoy the moment.

Final Thoughts

Whether you’re weeks away or just starting to plan, take time to think about how you want to feel when you look back at your wedding photos. If you’re looking for natural, documentary-style wedding photography — or a hybrid package with video highlights — I’d love to chat.

You can’t schedule light like this — but when it happens, I’ll be ready. These in-between moments are often the most meaningful.

And just a heads up: to celebrate the launch of my refreshed brand, I’m offering 20% off all wedding bookings secured with a deposit before 31st May 2025. You can explore my collections here or get in touch to check your date.