Why an Engagement Shoot is One of the Best Decisions You’ll Make Before Your Wedding

You’ve booked the venue, picked your outfits, and maybe even had a hair and makeup trial. But have you considered an engagement shoot with your photographer or videographer?

It might not be at the top of your checklist—but it should be.

A Chance to Connect Before the Big Day

Your wedding day is one of the most emotional, exhilarating, and nerve-wracking experiences of your life. It’s also deeply personal. You’re inviting someone to be there—often just metres away—as you exchange vows, cry happy tears, and share your first dance. If that person is a complete stranger, it can feel uncomfortable, especially if you’re not naturally at ease in front of the camera.

An engagement shoot gives you the opportunity to meet your photographer or videographer in a low-pressure, relaxed setting. It’s your chance to get to know how they work, how they guide and direct, and how it actually feels to be in front of their lens. That way, on your wedding day, they’re no longer a stranger—they’re a trusted part of your team.

Like a Hair or Makeup Trial… But for Photos

Couples often do trial runs for makeup, hair, and even food. Why not for your photography? After all, those images and films are what you’ll have left decades from now. An engagement session is like a test run—helping you feel more prepared and confident. You get to see how you look on camera, what angles work for you, and even what kinds of prompts or interactions feel most natural.

It’s not about staged smiles. It’s about building comfort and trust so that when the real day comes, you can be fully present, knowing exactly what to expect.

How to Get the Most Out of Your Engagement Shoot Photos: Tips & Tricks

Here are a few easy ways to make your engagement shoot—and your wedding photography—feel natural, relaxed, and truly you:

1. Take your time.

This isn’t a race. If you want that perfect shot of your first kiss, hold it a little longer. Take a second one! Don’t be afraid to pause and soak in the moment. That space often leads to the most genuine images.

2. Keep your head up—and your heart open.

It’s easy to get shy in front of a camera, especially if you’re not used to being photographed. But try to focus on your partner. Look at them, laugh with them, feel the moment. Be present. The more you connect with each other, the less you’ll notice the camera—and the more authentic your photos will be.

3. Embrace gentle movement.

You don’t need to pose stiffly. Walk, sway, cuddle, twirl. Let there be motion. It adds life and emotion to your images and films—and it helps you relax.

4. Don’t overthink your arms.

We’ve all had that moment—“what do I do with my hands?” A few easy fixes: pop them in your pockets, hold your partner’s hands, gently brush their hair back, wrap your arms around them. A little space between your arm and your body also avoids the dreaded squish and keeps things flattering and fluid.

Final Thoughts

Booking an engagement shoot is more than just ticking another box—it’s an investment in your comfort, confidence, and connection. It helps you build trust with your photographer or videographer, and it makes a world of difference on your wedding day.

So if you’re on the fence, consider this your sign to go for it. You’ll not only come away with beautiful pre-wedding memories but also walk into your wedding day feeling ready, relaxed, and excited to be captured—just as you are.

Want to book an engagement shoot or learn more? Let’s have a chat — no pressure, just friendly advice and a cuppa if you fancy.